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Death is not a medical emergency – it is possible to slow down.  

holding the hand of a loved one

There is no incorrect way to approach death, there are only options and instincts. That said, when a person dies in BC there are standard steps that need to be taken. This content was inspired by Emily Bootle’s work at DeathCare BC and gratefully shared with her permission. The first few moments: Be present There is a strong…

Top 3 Books About Death I Read in 2022

Top 3 books about Death I read this year

There are more death positive books on the shelves these days and that’s so encouraging! It can also be overwhelming. Here are some of my favourites, chosen because I find them to be approachable and not too “out there”. Easy to read and empowering – because the best remedy to overcome fear is knowledge! We…

Death Over Dinner

Death Over Dinner

“The dinner table is the most forgiving place for difficult conversation. The ritual of breaking bread creates warmth and connection, and puts us in touch with our humanity. It offers an environment that is more suitable than the usual places we discuss end of life.”  Michael Webb, co-creator of Death over Dinner What is a…

Green Burial – Death Nourishing Life

Green Burial

Burying our dead is possibly the most earthly expression of our grief. An open graves confronts mourners with a stark reminder of the reality of loss. In our death denying culture, this is a rare sight, but with green burial there is often a comforting sense that we are honouring our loved one’s earthly shell…