Victoria Death Doula Care

Just as birth doulas support new life, death doulas provide practical, emotional, and experienced support at life’s end. 

I facilitate meaningful, inclusive conversations about end-of-life planning, helping individuals and families make informed choices. Education empowers loved ones to honour wishes with confidence, rather than guess.

Our meeting begins with a consultation call to identify your needs. I tailor my services meet the individual, couple or group where they are at currently. Sometimes there has been a health concern or diagnosis and families want to gather information and plan for the future. Some groups are friends simply wanting to get the conversation started in a comfortable way, then learn how to broach the subject with their own families. For an expected death at home I provide information on what to expect to ensure everyone feels safe and comfortable.  I return after the death has occurred to facilitate the care of the body.  Every meeting is uniquely designed to meet your needs.

Holistic Advance Care Planning - Tailored support for estate organizing, funeral planning, and legacy work for individuals, couples, and families.

$120/hr for short term goals. 

 $100/hr for 5+ hour bundles.

Empowered Estate: $375+gst Includes a custom binder, workshop, and ongoing monthly accountability parties!

Death is a part of life. Often kids intrinsically understand this with more ease than adults. I believe that the fear of death is learned through growing up in our death denying culture. Children are welcome and encouraged to be present with their families and I have age appropriate materials for engagement and comfort.

No, I hope you’ll meet with me sooner! Discussions surrounding end of life wishes can be ongoing because wishes and feelings change. My mission is to empower families to have these conversations together. I have witnessed the heartaches of families left to navigating the death of a loved one based on guessing and instinct alone. I think families can be more present in life, illness and death when they have given some forward thought together.

It is not uncommon to prefer someone other than family to step in to protect your wishes. In the event that a person cannot make health decisions for themselves, there is a standard, government dictated list of who has the right to make decisions on your behalf. That person is called your Temporary Substitute Decision Maker and you can find the list here in order of authority. If you are not comfortable with that designated person making decisions on your behalf, you can fill out a Representation Agreement to name the person of your choosing (with their consent). This can be useful if you do not wish your spouse to have to make decisions on your behalf and prefer a trusted friend. Or if you are closer with your chosen family rather than your family of origin.

Talking about end of life with loved ones is often awkward and uncomfortable. It is my passion to help facilitate these discussions with levity and a feeling of calm and security. When I tailor a family meeting, I start with some individual engagement to get everyone on the same page, so when we meet the ball is already rolling, whether the meeting is in person or virtually.