Death Over Dinner

“The dinner table is the most forgiving place for difficult conversation. The ritual of breaking bread creates warmth and connection, and puts us in touch with our humanity. It offers an environment that is more suitable than the usual places we discuss end of life.” 

Michael Webb, co-creator of Death over Dinner

What is a death dinner?

The idea is to gather as a family or group of friends and share a meal together while talking about death. Before hand, everyone can watch, listen or read a pre-chosen, thought provoking video, podcast or article so that everyone has a common place to start from. 

In my experience facilitating death dinners, it does not take long for conversation to flow. After all, when do we get an opportunity to speak freely with others about death, in a safe and supported setting without fear of seeming morbid or upsetting others? There is something about sitting around a table together that is a great equalizer. Add in delicious food and all of a sudden talking about a difficult topic seems a bit more approachable. After 3 courses, not only are you full and satisfied, but also enlightened and empowered by talking openly about death.

When I facilitate Death Over Dinner, I start with a phone call to understand the dynamic and needs of the group. I then tailor materials and program to suit. All you need to do is set the table and decide what to eat. It’s a homey and satisfying way to engage in end of life discussion with family or friends.  Book your dinner today!